Bryan Said:

I'm a wrong to feel this way?

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No you're not wrong for feeling that way. You are just a little shy. You got to get out there and be confident. Go out and date, dating won't lead you to a wife of course but you'll get experience. Either way your young, 23 yeah young. Don't rush it for falling in love does not happen overnight. You got to remember that the first girl you date may not be the one. You'll be lucky if she is but most likely she isn't. You have to go through some bad apples in order to find one good one. Get your career together meanwhile and keep in mind there is someone out there for everyone. And believe me you will someday get all that you want, you just got to be patient.

Dianne Said:

analyse the business environmental forces and their impact on management decisions of the target market?

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Asked this question more than once and no answers are coming. Looks like you will have to do your homework without assistance from Yahoo!Answers. Darn, might have to read the book.

Sidney Said:

Ladies, what makes a guy attractive to you?

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okay. i feel where you are coming from. i'm the same, only i wait for guys to talk to me for fear of rejection since im a girl. but when i'm out somewhere new where nobody knows me, i act as outgoing as i can. i'm into video game design and do beta tests for different game companies, and when i'm in their focus groups i try to offer as much information as i can and have everyone notice me. (this is very difficult for me though. im a shy person when it comes to relationships.) it usually isn't difficult to get the guys to notice me because im the only girl in the beta test and they are already staring at me as soon as i walk through the door to the game's headquarters but thats beside the point!

girls like genuinely nice guys. and people in general. don't you hate people that are fake and mean? well i do. they piss me off. anyways! sweet guys are awesome too. if you say something so sweet that it gives us butterflies in our stomachs, you have something going for you.

another thing! unless you are talking to a total *****, which you wont be able to determine unless you actually strike up a conversation (or you could watch her but that would be stalkerish..), you probably won;t be rejected. most of us girls have hearts. we hate turning people down and often ask yahoo answers what to do to turn someone down because we hate hurting guy's feelings. especially if you just start talking to her, she can't exactly reject you if you have not presented her anything to reject. we like guys talking to us. we feel special. you won't be rejected just by talking. i promise you this, unless you've got a ***** on your hands. then your screwed.

an attractive guy is someone who has everything you described and more. someone who is changing always, improving themselves and gaining knew knowledge. sure we swoon for ashton kutcher, but we'll do the same for the person that finds us unique and special for what we truly are. a mind and voice is also something we value. if you can think for yourself and have a view on things, we will find you even more attractive.

if your profile picture is real. you have no reason to worry worry about your looks my friend. coming from a total stranger this probably doesn't mean much, but you are far from ugly and are quite good looking.

i hope this helps!

Ann Said:

How do I cope with this feeling?

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If you're that great of a guy, (which it sounds like you're completely amazing), you'll find the right girl. In my opinion, it's better to find the right one first than to go through all the wrong ones. I think you'll be fine. I'm actually pretty much the same and haven't been in a relationship either, though I am a bit younger than you. I find reading to cheer me up. I read a lot of fiction, (not the romance kind because it just defeats the purpose for me.) Fiction helps distract from your own situation. It would be like delving into Narnia. :) Hang in there. If you're the guy you say you are, God has the right person for you and you'll be so happy when you find her. :) (And probably more appreciative too!)

Salvador Said:

Is it weird to be 23 and have never been in a relationship?

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I'm going to be honest here and say you have some issues that you need to deal with. The reason I say this is because I'm the same type of guy you are. I always have difficulties opening up to people. I get anxiety in cituations like that regardless if its a men or a woman. Ofcourse if worst if its a woman and she is good looking. You describe yourself as having good qualities i.e. goal oriented, honest etc etc. That's great et all but the problem is that non of that matter because no one else will be able to see all of those good qualities unless they get to know you. The only way for that to happen is for you to open up and try to make friends with both males and females. I know you want a more serious relationship with a female but before you can do that you have to start simple. You have to be able to make friends and from there you can move up to a relationship. Don't expect people to come to you. Take into account that people are also apprehensive too so they also rather you go to them. If you do want them to come to you then you at least have to look inviting.

I'm married and have kids and have made great progress but even to this day I find it difficult to approach people some times. What I figure out over the years is that it is all in your head. Still the feeling can be overwhelming at times but there are a couple of things you can do. I suggest you buy a book on body language and dating. They will show you what you are doing wrong and what things you can do to make people open up to you. Also read the book how to make friends and persuade people. Sorry, that is not the exact name but is a classic book that will help you a great deal in both your personal and proffesional life. Also, practice at it. Create some scenarios in your head and then practice with real people. For example, lets say there are two art exhibits in your town. Even though you do not plan to attend either go ask people where they are and which one they would recommend. I.e. ask for directions and an opinion. Let them do the talking while you feed them some info every now and then. The exercise is to give you experience approaching people. It will uncomfortable at 1st but it gets easier. It helps if you rehearse this in your head before you do it. Below is a link of a FREE audio tutorial on how to help you cope with anxiety. I think you will find it very useful.

Work on this issue because it is affecting your life. You can't get married until you get a girlfriend. You can't get a girlfriend until you ask her out. You can get her to go out with you unless you ask. Work on the asking part and everything else will fall into place with some work eventually

http://www.selftherapy.org/listen/

Cody Said:

How can I accept and be confident in my looks?

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You do sound like a great guy. Girls don't always go after looks. When someone is cute, it may not be cute to another. Someone may be cute, but not attractive enough personality-wise. It's complicate but looks are not everything to chemistry with another person.

You can start out by just asking for a date and don't expect the relationship to move on to girlfriend and boyfriend status automatically. This will help you get to know a girl better without any real ties. Dating is to get to know someone better. Try being their friends first and just talking to them as friends. If you really like them, ask them out. If she says no, then give yourself a pat on the back for trying. That's part of being man for trying.

You're 23, and that's really young. You have time to settle down. Relax, take your time, and learn from experience until you figure yourself out and find the girl of your dreams : ). Experience doesn't have to be dirty things, but learning about what you like and dont like or want and don't want.