Christian Said:

Whose got time for long question?? soo..do u STAND BY your MAN?? input from serious men & women wiling to read

We Answered:

this same thing just went on with me and my girlfriend except the other way around. it felt as if we werent even datin anymore, it was like she didnt care or like we grew apart... i felt like i was the only one fighting for the relationship, because i was the one who wanted to talk and she didnt i was the one sending the lovey texts not her. and everytime i mentioned something she simply would brush it off and act like it was nothing. but finally one day i just had to ask.

i expected something like, well have a lot going on, even if she told me that i was smothering her would have been better than what she did... she told me she wanted a break in her words, it was less than a break up but more than a break, she wanted to have fun with other people blah blah she said she wished she met me when she was older because she wants to marry me but wasnt ready for this... i was crushed my heart was literally smashed to pieces.. and then that same day a few hours later i got stung by 3 bees at the same time(im allergic)

i had to go to the hospital and the doctors actually lost me for a good 20 to 30 seconds.. but i have never seen my girl fight that hard... she was pushin the doctors ouot of the way to come see me because she wanted to tell me that she loved me... she told me to keep fighting it because she loved me and cared and she wanted to forget about the break thing it was amazing... she fought for me

and as many may say, she didnt take me back cuz i was dying. i thought that at first too, but our relationshp has gotten better, it was like almost losing eachother and breaking up brought us closer because it made us realze exactly how special what we have is.. we talk on the phone more now and the puppy love is back we are crazy in love and doing things more andstuff

so what im saying is that maybe something dramatic needs to be done to show this guy that hey yeah he is going through a rough time but he needs to also pay attention to you... he lost his grandpa he lost some of his school stuff, hes trying to keep everything together but at the same time he is losing you... so you need to get it through his head or do something to show him that ur serious about this and ur serious that ur getting frustrated.. something needs to be done to remind him why you two have been together for 4 and half years

Vicki Said:

So this is the life we dreamed about?Is that happiness?

We Answered:

hmmmm, you can't do something your not happy with .

its never too late to do what you want just make sure you are decided this time and if your parents truly cared, eventually they will forgive you and understand although it might take some time. They just want the best for you and they want you to be happy. Btw, whats the name of your country

Glenn Said:

whose got time for long question?? soo..do u STAND BY your MAN?? input from serious men & women please.

We Answered:

you are right to be thinking like you are because you have become used to seeing being and hearing from him all the time. But you really just need to try to be more understanding because he seems like he is dealing with a lot. Just be happy that he is able to talk to you once a day because he could not have a phone and there would be no contact at all. Just try to be supportive the best you can. If you nag him all the time that will just push him farther away from you than he already is.


Good luck and i hope you all make it through this hard time in your life.