Jerry Said:

Long story but pleaseeeee helpp this Girl is confusing!?

We Answered:

Ok,honestly buddy, your friend definitely has no clue that you like her. It seems she likes to play around with you because she loves the attention. She cried about the guy because she likes him. She flirts with you because she likes to have someone compliment her and be with her when she feels lonely or bored. In my opinion, she does not know what she wants. She just likes to play around and have fun. If you want to really know the truth, ask her out, but something tells me that you're going to get your heart crushed. I'm sorry but she seems like the kind of person that has no consideration of other people's feelings but her own. If you think she is the one, then go for it and ask her out. If you are not sure, then ask one of her friends what she thinks about you. Don't let her take away your dignity. Look around you bud, I bet there are a line of girls waiting for you. She is not the only girl in this world. She might be the "perfect one" in YOUR eyes, but open your eyes wider, and you will find the true girl of your dreams. She's out there, you just have to look for her. She's there, you're just not letting her get to you. Good luck. I hope you are able to understand how she feels. Don't give up. Don't be afraid to look for someone new, and remember to keep your head held high--don't let anyone take away your dignity.

Rodney Said:

Do all shY girls act like this? Or is she playing with me? Long story?

We Answered:

She likes you, but only as a friend. Not saying that that's the end, but that's where you are right now.

PS: You seriously sound like you're not-quite-over the "you didn't thank me for saying happy birthday!" so yeah, it's best to totally forget it - it really doesn't mean anything.

I'd say good luck, but you sound desperate and obsessed, which, by the way, isn't really something I can see shy girls liking. I'm sure you're actually neither desperate nor obsessed, so try not to come off that way around her (she's probably pretty creeped out right now...), and you'll be fine! ^^

Marion Said:

Long story but pleassse helppp! She is confusing!?

We Answered:

Yes girls are confusing but women and wifes are worse.